What Challenges Did Your Soul Choose?

As part of my research into near death experiences, hypnosis, and evidential mediumship it became very clear that the soul has a plan for the life. This is called the Soul Plan or Pre-birth Blueprint. Before the soul incarnates into a physical body, the soul will get together with their guides, teachers, and soul group and create a plan for the life. It's a high level plan that decides on parents, location, time period, purpose, challenges, and exit points (how and when we die) for the life. So yes, your soul created a high level plan for your life. Then we all have free will as humans in between these high level points to decide how we want to live the life.

For example, my soul chose my parents and to be born in Ohio for a specific reason and I know exactly why. I chose this to be "relatable". I'm meant to be a "normal" regular person because my purpose is to discuss spiritual and extraterrestrial topics with other normal people. I'm supposed to help wake people up. It sounds crazy but at the same time makes total sense.

We also all choose challenges or called life lessons. I found out my life lessons are the following:

-Serenity and calm and how to achieve those in a modern age

-Harmony and how to maintain harmonious relationships

-Flexibility and learning to be flexible

-Acceptance of self and others, and circumstances outside of my control

-Authority and learning discernment on using my own intuition versus listening to others

-Peace and staying centered

The way this works is that at the human level, we will see examples of our soul lessons throughout our whole life until we've figured it out. For example, I had three kids two years apart which is a big challenge for serenity, harmony, and peace. In regards to acceptance and authority, obviously the current challenges of the world like war and political corruption create quite a bit of challenge for me as to how I find my own inner peace, acceptance, and authority when the world is in chaos.

Do you see where I'm going with this? A few other life lessons the soul will choose can be commitment, self determination, empowerment / power, integrity, independence, balance, beauty, accountability, and self-love.

Let's look at a couple examples:

• If your parents were always authoritarian and pushed their own opinions on you then you are probably working on self trust and inner authority

• If your parents were emotionally or physically abusive, that's a big flag that your life lessons are to work on self love and self trust. You need to work on loving yourself unconditionally and creating boundaries with people.

• If you always felt powerless around your parents or other people, then you need to work on empowerment and self trust.

• If you experienced the death of a parent or sibling then there's a flag there where you are meant to pursue spirituality and understanding the non-physical. This would have to do with lessons like acceptance for example accepting situation we don't have control of, flexibility, inner trust, and peace.

Essentially, we will keep seeing the same patterns until we get it and work on ourselves. Our parents are big flags that show us what we need to work on since we chose our parents for specific reasons. Once you start working on yourself then the patterns decrease and will even go away. A few examples of this are:

• If your parents always made you feel powerless, and then friends, boyfriends or girlfriends always borrowed money from you and never returned it, this would be a pattern where you feel stepped on throughout life. You need to work on creating boundaries, your discernment, your inner trust, and loving yourself. Once you do this and start saying NO to people and putting yourself first, you will see these people drop away from your life.

• Another example is if your parents were fighting or bickering a lot. Perhaps there was an alcoholic parent, and then you attracted people that you fought with or that were also erratic, this would be an example where you need to work on peace and harmony within. Once you do that you will start attracting people that are peaceful and harmonious.

To summarize, we can all look at our parents and the people we have attracted throughout our life and we can see the patterns. We can use this information to drill down into the soul lessons we chose. When we figure that out, it makes it easier to identify it and make changes so that we complete the lesson. For example since I know my life lesson is focused on peace, harmony, and serenity, when my kids are having temper tantrums and losing their minds, I remind myself, "This is my life lesson, stay harmonious, stay peaceful, this is for my own learning."

When we work on our life lessons, this can also help with our purpose. For example if we are working on peace and harmony through meditation, we can teach that to others. Another example is if we are working on self love, we can share this with our friends and family to help them also. It benefits humanity when we work on ourselves and understand our lessons.

When we complete life lessons, we get a big standing ovation when we die and transition back to the spirit realm. We also become a more evolved soul which provides access to higher realms. It's not a hierarchy or caste system in the spirit realm because all souls are equally special in the web of life. But as we become more evolved we get more access to information and different jobs. It's a good thing to evolve!

Think about your life, parents, and the people you have attracted. What were the reoccurring challenges you experienced? These are patterns and clear indicators of what you chose to work on in the life.