Our Death is Meticulously Planned

While I was researching near-death experiences, past life and between life hypnosis cases, and evidential mediumship, it was consistently stated that as souls we meticulously plan our death.

Before we come into the life we create a pre-birth blueprint or soul plan. This high level plan includes where we will be born, our parents, the purpose for the life, the challenges, and our exit points.

Exit points is a fancy phrase that refers to our potential deaths. Why are there multiple exit points you ask? The soul plans multiple options for death depending on which path our life will take. For example there may be 5 different potentials our soul plans for us to die. However, the exit points are usually around the same time period, like within a 10 year window.

The soul chooses how long they want to live before coming into the life, as in the soul specifically decides if they want to live a short life or a long life. There are reasons for the soul to choose both. We often think of a child's death as one of the most tragic situations that can happen; but the soul chooses to exit at that precise age. It's never an accident or mistake when we die. This is something the soul is very meticulous about when it comes to planning.

Why would a soul choose to exit at a young age? A child's death creates a lot of learning for the parents and family. It totally changes the trajectory of a person's life to unexpectedly lose a loved one. When I read books by parents that lost their child, they went on a search for their child in spirit. Eventually, they found the same information I found regarding near-death experiences, reincarnation, hypnosis, and then they found evidence their child exists through good mediums. They would then find their own way to start communicating with their child in spirit. Consequently, they usually discuss their own mission to help others as well. You can find my book references here under Books by Parents Connecting with Children in the Afterlife.

In addition, an unexpected death is a big spiritual wake up call for anyone in that community. The death of a younger person can create a lot of change in society because it's so jarring for people. For example, when a person dies by drug overdose, the whole community questions our laws and ethics around mental health and recreational drugs. We question how we can prevent these types of situations in the future.

The type of death is also meticulously selected by the soul. Why would a soul choose a more traumatic death? The soul lives hundreds, if not thousands of lives in order to experience all the different facets of life. As we experience more, we evolve more which is what the soul desires. Thus, the soul's perspective is to experience the different ways to die.

The other point is that what we see is not reality. It was extremely consistent in my research that the soul energy or spirit pops out of the physical body right before a traumatic death occurs. For a car accident, the soul energy is out of the body before the collision. For a fall, the soul energy pops out of the body mid-air and the spirit finds themselves floating in air moving through a tunnel. This is why spiritual teachers say that death is just an illusion.

After the death of a loved one, people sometimes feel guilt about a loved one's death like, "If I did xyz then maybe this wouldn't have happened", however even if you prevented that exit point, the soul would have another exit point setup to exit a short time later. So even if a death is prevented, the soul will leave when they want to leave. As I've said, everything is meticulously planned by the soul, so it's important to release those guilty emotions. I can confidently say that the loved one in spirit is not concerned about what someone did or didn't do during the death process. They are in bliss in the spirit realm with their loved ones in spirit and soul group. In fact, they may even be planning their next life.

William Peters wrote a book called At Heaven’s Door about his research of 700 shared death experiences. Peters brings up an interesting topic in his book about beings of light coordinating and orchestrating the death process. He says that he has heard enough about these beings of light that he gave it a name. He called the being, "the conductor".

Peters said that he felt and saw this coordination when his father died. As his father was dying, his father's deceased relatives came to retrieve him. The deceased relatives were also looking at the being of light for direction as if there was a plan to follow. This doesn't surprise me because the spirit realm is highly organized and souls have jobs like this across the veil.

In regards to suicide, my understanding is that a soul won't specifically choose suicide. The soul doesn't go into the life saying "I'm going to commit suicide in this life" but the soul knows it's a probability if they are choosing challenging life circumstances or a body with mental illness. Suicide is a free will action committed by the human but it's also agreed to by the soul. If the soul really wanted to prevent a suicide death then the guardian angel will get involved. The job of a guardian angel is to prevent death before the agreed exit time.

Thus, my point here is that if suicide occurs, the soul agreed to it. No one is punished or receives consequences in the spirit realm. The idea that suicide is punishable is absolutely false. The soul may have to incarnate again and work on the lessons they missed out on but they are never punished in the spirit realm. Souls that commit suicide in a life are in bliss and joy in the spirit realm. People often feel guilty about the events that lead up to a suicide but it's important to know that all souls agree to their beginning and their end whether it's an unexpected death, natural cause, or a suicide.

There is of course learning from suicide. This is a type of death that really wakes up communities as well. A suicide generates a lot of conversation about mental health and how we can pay more attention to it, whether that is loving ourselves more, discussing the effects of substance abuse, or becoming more compassionate to others in pain. As humans, we certainly have a lot to learn about mental health. Much of that stems from our lack of focus on self-love. Self-love is so very important to our evolution but I'll leave that for another blog post because there is much to say on that topic.

You can imagine that as I was researching spirituality the past couple years, I was shocked to find this information so consistently stated. I find it to be quite freeing to know that things go exactly as planned and nothing is by accident. This also means that no one should feel guilty about what they could or couldn't have done. The other thing is that we often fear death, but death is so consistently described as a beautiful experience by near-death experiencers, those under hypnosis, and evidential mediums. It's described as taking a heavy coat off in summer, returning back to ourselves, and to our true Home.

We are all going to die. It's important for humanity to come to terms with death, learn about it, and be at peace with it. After researching near-death experiences, out-of-body experiences, hypnosis, taking evidential mediumship classes, and researching quantum physics I can confidently say that we are all spiritual beings having a human experience, and there is nothing to be afraid of regarding death.

Feel free to check out my book references here: https://www.laurenspirituality.com/post/references